Hi, I'm Victoria. I'm 19 years old and I live with the cutest cat in the world and my boyfriend in the great white north, also known as North Montana or Canada. I'm a Whovian, Potterhead, and I like to write about stuff in long-post forms that I like to call "rants". I listen to Bjork, Panic! At the Disco, MCR, Lady Gaga, Garfunkel and Oates, and many upbeat thespian hits. ^^
Bodies are hairy. No matter the gender, your face will have hair and that is more than okay.
Your butthole is going to have some hair too. And maybe your nipples. And your tummy. And where ever else.
Stretch marks. Those are a thing. Everyone gets ‘em. If you don’t, you probably don’t have skin.
Vaginas smell. Every vagina has a scent. Don’t worry about it! (Unless something seems wrong, then go get it checked out! No need to feel embarrassed or ashamed.)
Vaginas come in all different shapes, sizes, colors, flavors. All are beautiful.
Penises come in all different shapes, sizes, colors, flavors. All are beautiful.
You don’t need to shave anything if you don’t want to. It’s tooootally not mandatory.
Sometimes people get butt acne.
You can have a vagina and want short hair and think dresses are just the worst.
You can have a penis and want long hair and think dresses are just the best.
You can wear whatever you want and style your hair however you want.
You can even think whatever the hell you want.
People might tell you that you are a girl because you have a vagina. People might tell you that you are a boy because you have a penis. People will tell you what your gender is. But in reality, you don’t have to be that gender. You don’t have to be either of those genders.
You are what you are and it’s just the worst thing if you try and hide that.
If and when I become a father I’ll make damn sure to let my kids know all of that often.
best thing i read on tumblr.
The thing is, parents don’t just forget to say these things. They tell you the exact opposite.
I don’t know, I’m not sure how I would feel about my parents telling me that vaginas and penises come in all shapes, sizes, colors, and flavors. I’m also not so sure how I’d feel about them telling me about hairy buttholes.